If your sex life is on vacation until you go on vacation, keep reading. Do the stars and moon have to align for your libido to wake up? And sex at home on a random Tuesday leaves you thinking… “Did you lock the door?” “Are there still dishes in the sink?” “Wait,...
Feeling awkward about oral sex? You’re not alone. From performance anxiety to hygiene worries, many people overthink “going down”—but confidence and pleasure are learnable skills. Here’s how to get out of your head, communicate better, and actually enjoy it.
Stop Sabotaging Your Sex Life
Consider this as you ask yourself if your bedroom is ruining your sex life: You crawl into bed after a romantic date… Ok let’s get real, a nice dinner with your partner. You’re ready for some sexytime with your partner and instead of being greeted by soft sheets and...
Let’s talk about your spank bank. Yes, you heard that right. Not your checking, not your savings, not your crypto wallet. We’re talking about the intimate, deeply personal, highly subjective mental treasure chest of sexual fantasies. Most of us dip into them when...
While aging brings wisdom and laughter lines, it also brings with it an increasingly complex relationship sex. As we age, the dynamics of intimacy evolve, sometimes in surprising, hilarious, and enlightening ways. When it comes to sex and aging, many people have...
So what do I mean by open heart...open legs? If you haven't heard that the key to getting a women to open her legs is through opening her heart, then keep reading. It’s time we talk about why it’s crucial for you to take the first step in being more present,...
If you were too busy or caught up in adulting to get dressed up and playful this Halloween and this has become a pattern for you this could be affecting your ability to have a satisfying sex life. Are you wondering what the heck does Halloween have to do with good and...
Initially this blog was titled “5 Reasons MEN Aren’t Having Sex” because it’s about why females often decline their partner’s sexual desires/advances/requests. Men often have greater sexual desire (duh) than women in long-term relationships. In most cases what I see...
A surprising number of clients come to me questioning whether or not they are asexual. In most cases it’s not asexuality. It’s low desire or a partner who isn’t happy with the desire discrepancy between them. So you think you're asexual? The asexual self diagnoser is...