If your sex life is on vacation until you go on vacation, keep reading. Do the stars and moon have to align for your libido to wake up? And sex at home on a random Tuesday leaves you thinking… “Did you lock the door?” “Are there still dishes in the sink?” “Wait,...
Feeling awkward about oral sex? You’re not alone. From performance anxiety to hygiene worries, many people overthink “going down”—but confidence and pleasure are learnable skills. Here’s how to get out of your head, communicate better, and actually enjoy it.
If your libido has been acting different lately… lower, inconsistent, playing hard to get like it suddenly developed standards… you are not alone. And no — it does not automatically mean: Being broken Not loving your partner Your relationship failing Being “too old”...
Let’s be honest: sexual empowerment gets tossed around like the idea of “work-life balance”—we love the concept, we repost inspirational memes, but deep down we’re still trying to figure out what the hell it actually means in practice. Does it mean having all the...
Stop Sabotaging Your Sex Life
Let’s talk about your spank bank. Yes, you heard that right. Not your checking, not your savings, not your crypto wallet. We’re talking about the intimate, deeply personal, highly subjective mental treasure chest of sexual fantasies. Most of us dip into them when...
Let’s talk about how internalized homophobia can affect sex and intimacy in queer relationships. AKA the party crasher of intimacy, the ghost in the bed, the uninvited voice whispering, “You don’t really belong here, do you?” Even when we’re out, proud, and...
It’s time to dispel these myths that sex ends at menopause. I'm providing you with some tips and tools for navigating sex and intimacy through the stages of menopause. According to the research, sex is best @50 (Magnificent Sex: Lessons from Extraordinary Lovers by...
This week I’ve been caught up in feeling that I’m not good enough. Actually, I’d felt that way most of 2025 until today – happy fucking new year! Yes, I know, a little dramatic… the unsexy honest truth is these feelings come and go for me just like everyone else. Keep reading and I’ll share […]
While aging brings wisdom and laughter lines, it also brings with it an increasingly complex relationship sex. As we age, the dynamics of intimacy evolve, sometimes in surprising, hilarious, and enlightening ways. When it comes to sex and aging, many people have...