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Why Sex Improves on Vacation — and How to Recreate It at Home
If your sex life is on vacation until you go on vacation, keep reading. Do the stars and moon have to align for your libido to wake up? And sex at home on a random Tuesday leaves you thinking… “Did you lock the door?” “Are there still dishes in the sink?” “Wait,...
Why “Good Girls” Struggle to Enjoy Sex (And How to Break Free)
If you’re not a “good girl”, I guarantee you know one. And if you do, share this with her! Either way, read on because sex education is power! You know her. She’s polite.Responsible.Emotionally intelligent.Knows how to make everyone comfortable. She says thank...
What Your Partner Needs to Know About Menopause and Sex
Feeling awkward about oral sex? You’re not alone. From performance anxiety to hygiene worries, many people overthink “going down”—but confidence and pleasure are learnable skills. Here’s how to get out of your head, communicate better, and actually enjoy it.
Let’s Talk About Going Down (Without Freaking Out About It)
Feeling awkward about oral sex? You’re not alone. From performance anxiety to hygiene worries, many people overthink “going down”—but confidence and pleasure are learnable skills. Here’s how to get out of your head, communicate better, and actually enjoy it.
If Your Libido Feels Off, Read This
If your libido has been acting different lately… lower, inconsistent, playing hard to get like it suddenly developed standards… you are not alone. And no — it does not automatically mean: Being broken Not loving your partner Your relationship failing Being “too old”...
What It Really Means to Be Sexually Empowered (And How to Actually Get There)
Let’s be honest: sexual empowerment gets tossed around like the idea of “work-life balance”—we love the concept, we repost inspirational memes, but deep down we’re still trying to figure out what the hell it actually means in practice. Does it mean having all the...
A Resolution for 2026: Stop Sabotaging Your Sex Life
Stop Sabotaging Your Sex Life
What to do when couples therapy isn’t working
So, you finally took the plunge and started couples therapy. 🎉You walked in hopeful—ready to reconnect, reignite, and maybe even get laid again. But weeks (or months) later, you’re wondering… “Why isn’t this working? Are we just paying someone to watch us...
Healing (and Maybe Rebuilding) After Infidelity: Hope, Hurt, and Hot Mess Recovery
Infidelity. The word alone can make your stomach drop, your heart pound, and your brain spin with “why,” “how,” and “what now.” It’s one of the most painful breaches a couple can experience — and yet, as both Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring (author of After the Affair) and...
Is Your Bedroom Ruining Your Sex Life?
Consider this as you ask yourself if your bedroom is ruining your sex life: You crawl into bed after a romantic date… Ok let’s get real, a nice dinner with your partner. You’re ready for some sexytime with your partner and instead of being greeted by soft sheets and...