If your libido has been acting different lately… lower, inconsistent, playing hard to get like it suddenly developed standards… you are not alone. And no — it does not automatically mean: Being broken Not loving your partner Your relationship failing Being “too old”...
Sex Therapy
What to do when couples therapy isn’t working
So, you finally took the plunge and started couples therapy. 🎉You walked in hopeful—ready to reconnect, reignite, and maybe even get laid again. But weeks (or months) later, you’re wondering… “Why isn’t this working? Are we just paying someone to watch us...
Healing (and Maybe Rebuilding) After Infidelity: Hope, Hurt, and Hot Mess Recovery
Infidelity. The word alone can make your stomach drop, your heart pound, and your brain spin with “why,” “how,” and “what now.” It’s one of the most painful breaches a couple can experience — and yet, as both Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring (author of After the Affair) and...
So… What Actually Happens in Sex Therapy? (Spoiler: No, I’m Not Watching You Do It)
Let’s talk about sex therapy. Just saying the words out loud makes some people squirm, doesn’t it? Tell someone you’re seeing a sex therapist, and you’ll either get a raised eyebrow, an intrigued lean-in, or that “ohhh…” face people make when they’re trying to act...
What does playfulness have to do with good or satisfying sex?
If you were too busy or caught up in adulting to get dressed up and playful this Halloween and this has become a pattern for you this could be affecting your ability to have a satisfying sex life. Are you wondering what the heck does Halloween have to do with good and...
Fixing relationships in sex therapy
Want to improve your marriage or intimate relationship when the sex isn't great? Go to a sex therapist - someone trained in fixing relationships in sex therapy. For couples counseling, therapists without training in sex therapy or sexuality don't always have the...






