Sex Therapy can help when parenting causes sexual problems.
Low Sexual Desire
What’s Stress & Mental Health have to do with Sex?
Your Brain is Your Biggest Sex Organ What's stress and mental health have to do with sex? While we often hear about the importance of diet and exercise for our sexual health, there's a sneaky saboteur that tends to slip under the radar: our mental well-being....
5 Reasons You Aren’t Having Sex…
Initially this blog was titled “5 Reasons MEN Aren’t Having Sex” because it’s about why females often decline their partner’s sexual desires/advances/requests. Men often have greater sexual desire (duh) than women in long-term relationships. In most cases what I see...
So you think you’re asexual?
A surprising number of clients come to me questioning whether or not they are asexual. In most cases it’s not asexuality. It’s low desire or a partner who isn’t happy with the desire discrepancy between them. So you think you're asexual? The asexual self diagnoser is...
Fueling Your Sex Drive
In my practice I see lots of women and couples wanting to address the issue of low desire. Before I work with individuals to help them fuel their sexual desire, I explore if the sex they are having is worth wanting. We also explore the level of overall satisfaction in...
Be a Selfish Lover
That must be a typo you say. But no, it’s not. If you want better sex, be a selfish lover. Your partner will thank you for it. Being a selfish lover isn’t what you think. Being a selfish lover is about approaching sex the way you did with your lover when you were...
Igniting Your Sex Drive by Identifying Sexual Turn Ons
If I asked you what your turn ons were, would you know? If I asked your sexual partner what your turn ons were, would they know? Do you know what turns on YOUR sexual partner? How about previous sexual partners? How aware are you of what impacts your sex drive? And...
Can’t Get in the Mood? Sexual Desire is Complicated.
Yes sexual desire is complicated. Are you saying to yourself, “I love my partner, I want to be sexual with my partner, I SHOULD be sexual with my partner but I just can't get in the mood”? Are you lacking the motivation or desire to make the effort to initiate sex,...