The Not-So-Sexy Side of Sex! When you're trying to navigate sexual pain, lube is NOT the solution. Today, we're diving headfirst into the bedroom's Bermuda Triangle: sexual and pelvic pain. If you've ever embarked on a steamy night only to end up feeling like you're...
Female Sexual Problems
5 Reasons You Aren’t Having Sex…
Initially this blog was titled “5 Reasons MEN Aren’t Having Sex” because it’s about why females often decline their partner’s sexual desires/advances/requests. Men often have greater sexual desire (duh) than women in long-term relationships. In most cases what I see...
Fueling Your Sex Drive
In my practice I see lots of women and couples wanting to address the issue of low desire. Before I work with individuals to help them fuel their sexual desire, I explore if the sex they are having is worth wanting. We also explore the level of overall satisfaction in...
Women Still Want to be Taken
Check out my latest article about why the 50 Shades movie bombed - but women still want to be taken. The movie may have been a dud but we can't ignore the attention the book trilogy received and the overwhelming fact that being dominated is a very common fantasy for...
When sex is painful
Sex can be painful for many reasons. Occasionally men suffer from painful sex but painful sex is more common with women. For women, sometimes it can be something basic like needing a quality lubricant, feeling safe/comfortable and relaxed, or getting the...
Orgasm: just the period at the end of a sentence?
Someone shared this quote with me a while back when I was up to my usual antics – talking about sex. “An orgasm is just the period at the end of a sentence.” Sorry – I don’t know who the quote is from but if I remember correctly it was a porn star. Interesting. My...