If you were too busy or caught up in adulting to get dressed up and playful this Halloween and this has become a pattern for you this could be affecting your ability to have a satisfying sex life. Are you wondering what the heck does Halloween have to do with good and...
Initially this blog was titled “5 Reasons MEN Aren’t Having Sex” because it’s about why females often decline their partner’s sexual desires/advances/requests. Men often have greater sexual desire (duh) than women in long-term relationships. In most cases what I see...
A surprising number of clients come to me questioning whether or not they are asexual. In most cases it’s not asexuality. It’s low desire or a partner who isn’t happy with the desire discrepancy between them. So you think you're asexual? The asexual self diagnoser is...
Here's a Valentine's Day article I wrote for Theravive. It still rings true for many of my sex therapy clients longing to be satisfied this valentine's day...again & again. It's about how to get the Valentine's Day you want. I want people to stop basing their...
Size matters you say? Of course everyone’s idea of what makes a great sexual lover varies. Some might say a great lover is naughty or rough, others might say erotic, while another person might say a great lover goes by the name of “Oh God!” More times than not, I find...
In my practice I see lots of women and couples wanting to address the issue of low desire. Before I work with individuals to help them fuel their sexual desire, I explore if the sex they are having is worth wanting. We also explore the level of overall satisfaction in...
Here's more May sex tips for all you couples in relationships as well as flirty singles. If you haven’t seen them all, just follow me on twitter @TalkSexWithLiz . To read about my first 10 sex tips, check out my blog here. I don’t think you or your partner...
Sex Tip #1 - Share your turn ons & offs with your partner. For every 1 turn off share 5 turn ons. So many people assume they know what their partner wants or likes most but often when I ask the question “What are your partner’s greatest turn ons and off?” I get...
So what are the key ingredients of great sex you ask? Am I suggesting that great sex comes down to just a few simple ingredients? Yes. I know what you are thinking - here it comes - the answer to everyone’s sexual problems and the key to world peace. Ok, so maybe not...
That must be a typo you say. But no, it’s not. If you want better sex, be a selfish lover. Your partner will thank you for it. Being a selfish lover isn’t what you think. Being a selfish lover is about approaching sex the way you did with your lover when you were...