That must be a typo you say. But no, it’s not. If you want better sex, be a selfish lover. Your partner will thank you for it. Being a selfish lover isn’t what you think. Being a selfish lover is about approaching sex the way you did with your lover when you were...
Check out my latest article about why the 50 Shades movie bombed - but women still want to be taken. The movie may have been a dud but we can't ignore the attention the book trilogy received and the overwhelming fact that being dominated is a very common fantasy for...
When sex with our partner gets predictable, boring, or unsatisfying, we lose interest in having sex – it's low sexual desire 101. If you don't get your sexual needs met with your partner or when sex is focused more on efficiency than pleasure and connection, you...
At the top of the list of most worthy resolutions: improve your sex life this year. In order to do that you need to FOCUS on what you WANT sexually. Because whatever you focus on gets bigger.... If you focus on pleasure, what turns you on, what you consider sexy, you...
Want to improve your marriage or intimate relationship when the sex isn't great? Go to a sex therapist - someone trained in fixing relationships in sex therapy. For couples counseling, therapists without training in sex therapy or sexuality don't always have the...
Yes, your biggest sex organ is your brain! Sex drive, sexual pleasure, and sexual satisfaction are more about what is between our ears than what is between our legs. However, our culture sees sex drive, sexual pleasure, and sexual dysfunction as being about our sexual...
A friend told me about this great talk on TED today by Al Vernacchio. It's about how it's better to look at sex like pizza than baseball. To check it out, click here: "Sex Needs a New Metaphor" Great sex is NOT like baseball. I love this concept. He talks about how...
I attended an Infidelity conference this weekend and between the conference and this article “Finding the Courage to Reveal a Fetish” I couldn’t help from wondering…. What are lovers holding back from their sexual partners and to what extent does this lead to...
Someone shared this quote with me a while back when I was up to my usual antics – talking about sex. “An orgasm is just the period at the end of a sentence.” Sorry – I don’t know who the quote is from but if I remember correctly it was a porn star. Interesting. My...