So what do I mean by open heart…open legs? If you haven’t heard that the key to getting a women to open her legs is through opening her heart, then keep reading. It’s time we talk about why it’s crucial for you to take the first step in being more present, connected, and romantic with your partner. Spoiler alert: doing so can drastically improve the frequency and quality of sex. Yep, you read that right. So, buckle up and let’s dive into why this is a win-win situation for everyone involved.
Why You Need to Take the Lead
Emotional Foreplay…aka an Open Heart…Open Legs:
It’s no secret that women value emotional intimacy. They need to feel understood, appreciated, and loved. When you take the first step to connect on an emotional level – that is, showing up with an open heart, it lays the groundwork for a deeper, more fulfilling relationship. Think of it as foreplay.
Women are Tired of Doing all the Emotional Heaving Lifting:
Often, women are expected to take the emotional lead in relationships. It’s time to flip the script and show that you too, are invested in building a strong, emotional foundation. This not only relieves them of the pressure but also fosters a more balanced dynamic.
Do YOU Have an Open Heart?
Be a Thoughtful Part of the Team:
Are you looking up and around to actually see how she is doing and if she needs support or nurturing? Is she running around frantically, handling responsibilities that you might help with, that you just don’t notice because you aren’t present enough to see?
Listen, Don’t Just Hear:
There’s a difference between hearing and listening. Listening involves understanding and responding thoughtfully – opening your heart. Women appreciate when their thoughts and feelings are validated. This simple act of presence can work wonders.
Romance: The Secret Sauce
Small Gestures, Big Impact:
You don’t need to break the bank with grand gestures. Little things like a heartfelt note, a spontaneous hug, a foot massage, or a surprise date can make a huge difference. These actions show that you’re thinking about her and care about her happiness.
Plan and Execute:
Is love and quality time (aka romance) on your to-do list? We love a partner with a plan. Whether it’s planning a simple date, quality time, or a weekend getaway, taking the initiative shows that you’re invested in creating memorable experiences together. Pro tip: a picnic in the living room still counts as a grand romantic gesture. Click here for more tips.
Why This Matters for Sex
Emotional Connection Equals Better Sex… aka Open Legs:
When a woman feels emotionally connected, she’s more likely to be open and enthusiastic about physical intimacy. You want her to open her legs? Then open her heart first! The quality of sex improves significantly when there’s trust and emotional closeness. Don’t believe me? Find more info here.
Frequency Follows Fulfillment:
Simply put, happy women are more likely to desire and initiate sex. When you make an effort to be present, connected, and romantic, you’re creating an environment where she feels valued and desired. This in turn, leads to more frequent and enjoyable sexual experiences.
Tips to Get Started
Daily Check-ins:
Put it on your to-do list. Ask her about her day and genuinely listen. Show interest in her life outside of your relationship. FYI, “Uh-huh” is not a good response.
Surprise Acts of Kindness:
Whether it’s making her favorite meal or running a bath for her after a long day, these little acts of kindness go a long way. Bonus points if you throw in a cheesy joke or two.
Express Gratitude:
Regularly tell her what you appreciate about her. Acknowledging her efforts and qualities makes her feel loved and valued. Get creative. “I love how you always find my keys when they go missing” is a valid compliment.
Be Affectionate WITHOUT the expectation of sex:
Physical touch is crucial. Hold hands, cuddle, and give random kisses regularly rather than just the times when you want to get laid. These gestures help maintain a strong physical connection.
Open YOUR Heart to Open HER Legs
CUMmunicate Openly:
Talk about your desires and listen to hers. Understanding each other’s needs can help bridge any gaps and lead to a more satisfying sexual relationship. Here’s a helpful couples communication tool.
Be Vulnerable:
Don’t be afraid to share your feelings and fears. Vulnerability builds intimacy and trust, which are key components of a strong relationship.
Final Thoughts
It’s time to step up and be the partners you’re capable of. By being more present, connected, and romantic, you’re not only enhancing the quality of your relationships but also reaping the benefits in the bedroom. Remember, it’s the little things that count. So, start today and watch how your efforts transform your relationship and sex life. Now go forth and be the romantic hero she’s been waiting for!
Now go have SEX!