Be Satisfied This Valentine’s Day…Again & Again

Be Satisfied This Valentine’s Day…Again & Again

Here's a Valentine's Day article I wrote for Theravive. It still rings true for many of my sex therapy clients longing to be satisfied this valentine's day...again & again. It's about how to get the Valentine's Day you want. I want people to stop basing their...

What makes a great sexual lover?

What makes a great sexual lover?

Size matters you say? Of course everyone’s idea of what makes a great sexual lover varies. Some might say a great lover is naughty or rough, others might say erotic, while another person might say a great lover goes by the name of “Oh God!” More times than not, I find...

Fueling Your Sex Drive

Fueling Your Sex Drive

In my practice I see lots of women and couples wanting to address the issue of low desire. Before I work with individuals to help them fuel their sexual desire, I explore if the sex they are having is worth wanting. We also explore the level of overall satisfaction in...

10 MORE Sex Tips #MaySexTips

10 MORE Sex Tips #MaySexTips

Here's more May sex tips for all you couples in relationships as well as flirty singles. If you haven’t seen them all, just follow me on twitter @TalkSexWithLiz . To read about my first 10 sex tips, check out my blog here. I don’t think you or your partner...

Top 10 Sex Tips for May

Top 10 Sex Tips for May

Sex Tip #1 - Share your turn ons & offs with your partner. For every 1 turn off share 5 turn ons. So many people assume they know what their partner wants or likes most but often when I ask the question “What are your partner’s greatest turn ons and off?” I get...

The key ingredients of great sex

The key ingredients of great sex

So what are the key ingredients of great sex you ask? Am I suggesting that great sex comes down to just a few simple ingredients? Yes. I know what you are thinking - here it comes - the answer to everyone’s sexual problems and the key to world peace. Ok, so maybe not...

Be a Selfish Lover

Be a Selfish Lover

That must be a typo you say. But no, it’s not. If you want better sex, be a selfish lover. Your partner will thank you for it. Being a selfish lover isn’t what you think. Being a selfish lover is about approaching sex the way you did with your lover when you were...

Women Still Want to be Taken

Women Still Want to be Taken

Check out my latest article about why the 50 Shades movie bombed - but  women still want to be taken. The movie may have been a dud but we can't ignore the attention the book trilogy received and the overwhelming fact that being dominated is a very common fantasy for...

New Year’s Resolution – More Sex in 2015

New Year’s Resolution – More Sex in 2015

In my latest article for Theravive.com I talk about how to address low sexual desire as a New Year’s Resolution – More Sex in 2015. Here's what I had to say: "One of the most frequent sexual complaints for women is low sexual desire (Ellison, 2001).  And one common...

Should Marriage Therapists Have Perfect Marriages?

Should Marriage Therapists Have Perfect Marriages?

My husband and I recently attended a couples retreat to work on some rough spots in our marriage. Yes people – marriage therapists don’t have perfect marriages! We are human just like you. It was humbling and difficult. While I have no delusions that I am a perfect...